HOW TO MEET SHEMALES
Meeting shemales isn’t as hard as it might first seem to be. You probably have questions. Where do you find shemales in your area? How do you approach them and how do you tell them apart from naturally born women? Well, first of all, when you’re wanting to meet a shemale it is very helpful to know the different types of T-Girls, Transsexuals and Shemales.
TYPES OF SHEMALES AND T-GIRLS
We’ll break down the most common types of transgendered individuals so you at least have a basic understanding of the difference between shemales and other types of t-girls.
Transgender (TG) Defined
The words transgender or TG for short – is a term that is generally used as a blanket term to describe a person who was born a certain gender but may dress or behave in a manner more consistent with the other gender. Many cross dressers and non-operative transsexuals consider themselves to be transgender. T-Girl is another term that is often used to describe those who identify as transgender, especially those who don’t consider themselves to be transsexual or shemale.
Transsexual (TS) Defined
A Transsexual or TS is someone who views themselves as being of the opposite sex to the physical body they were born in. They could have a male body with a female mind, this is called Male to Female Transsexual. Often the abbreviations MtF or MtoF are used. These are the ‘ladies’ who are most likely to be living as a woman full time and go through with hormone therapy. Gender reassignment surgery will be used to become more feminine and often indistinguishable from other women.
Pre-Op Transsexual Defined
The term pre-op transsexual refers to a transsexual who still has male genitalia as opposed to a post-op transsexual who has gone through full surgery to change their genitalia.
This term is often considered derogatory to transgender people. It was first used to describe transgender people appearing in pornographic material. Either way, it is still a popular term that refers to a transgender person who is engaged in various sex trades including pornography, prostitution, escorts and strippers.
Ladyboy is a translation of the Thai word Kathoey which it means the third sex.
Transvestite (TV) Defined
A transvestite is a person who dresses like the opposite sex to express the way they feel their sex should be. Most transvestites are also straight. Many are married with families but feel a need to cross dress. Their cross dressing is described as a way to relieve pent up pressure which can get very intense if repressed. Most transvestites report a sexual pleasure associated with their cross dressing.
Cross Dresser (CD) Defined
Cross dressing is a general term that includes transvestites and others who wear clothing of the opposite sex such as drag queens and female impersonators. They may or may not derive sexual pleasure from their cross dressing.
There is a breakdown of some of the terms that are regularly used in the LGBTQ+ community. Take note of the ones that are derogatory and the ones that are not. Be sure to choose your words wisely so as to not offend.
There is a huge difference between someone who is truly attracted to T-Girls and one who is just looking to over-sexualize them. Make sure to not say things to them that will make them feel like a fetish instead of a lady. We’ve laid the groundwork for you here, now you just need to get out there and let yourself be seen.
There is huge respect for people who understand that not everyone identifies as male and female. For people who connect that if you’re not sure what a person’s preferred pronoun is that you use “they” until you figure out what this person’s preferred pronoun is.
Some of our Trans Friends: