How to meet shemales instantly!Want to know how to meet shemales in your area? Meeting shemales isn’t as hard as it might first seem to be. You probably have questions. Where do you find shemales in your area? How do you approach them and  how do you tell them apart from naturally born women? Well, first of all, when you’re wanting to meet a shemale it is very helpful to know the different types of T-Girls, Transsexuals and Shemales.


We’ll break down the most common types of transgendered individuals so you at least have a basic understanding of the difference between shemales and other types of t-girls.

Transgender (TG) Defined 

The words transgender or TG for short – is a term that is generally used as a blanket term to describe a person who was born a certain gender but may dress or behave in a manner more consistent with the other gender. Many crossdressers and non-operative transsexuals consider themselves to be transgender. T-Girl is another term that is often used to describe those who identify as transgender, especially those who don’t consider themselves to be transsexual or shemale.

Transsexual (TS) Defined 

A Transsexual or TS is someone who views themselves as being of the opposite sex to the physical body they were born in. They could have a male body with a female mind, this is called Male to Female Transsexual. Often the abbreviations MtF or MtoF are used. These are the ‘ladies’ who are most likely to be living as a woman full time and go through with hormone therapy. Gender reassignment surgery will be used to become more feminine and often indistinguishable from other women.

Pre-Op Transsexual Defined

The term pre-op transsexual refers to a transsexual who still has male genitalia as opposed to a post-op transsexual who has gone through full surgery to change their genitalia.

Shemale Defined 

This term is often considered derogatory to transgender people. It was first used to describe transgender people appearing in pornographic material. Either way, it is still a popular term that refers to a transgender person who is engaged in various sex trades including pornography, prostitution, escorts and strippers.

LadyBoy Defined 

Ladyboy is a translation of the Thai word Kathoey which means the third sex.

Transvestite (TV) Defined 

A transvestite is a person who dresses as the opposite sex to express the way they feel their sex should be.  Most transvestites are also straight. Many are married with families but feel a need to crossdress. Their cross-dressing is described as a way to relieve pent-up pressure which can get very intense if repressed. Most transvestites report a sexual pleasure associated with their crossdressing. This term is perhaps a bit dated and the term cross dresser or crossdresser is often used now in its place.

Cross Dresser (CD) Defined 

Crossdressing is a general term that includes transvestites and others who wear clothing of the opposite sex such as drag queens and female impersonators. They may or may not derive sexual pleasure from their crossdressing.

There is a breakdown of some of the terms that are regularly used in the LGBTQ+ community. Take note of the ones that are derogatory and the ones that are not. Be sure to choose your words wisely so as to not offend.

Meet Shemales at Local Bars & Clubs

Now that you’re ready to meet shemales in real life, check out the shemale nightclubs guide at’s Shemale Clubs Directory – This directory is regularly updated and quite comprehensive. You’re sure to find night spots near you to meet shemales. Another great resource for the USA is the shemale clubs directory and tips for trans dating success.

Meet Shemale Escorts in Sex Classifieds

If you prefer to skip the bar scene and meet a local shemale escort for no-strings sex, then shemale escort classifieds and transexual sex ads are the fastest way to go. Try a search at the BonePage shemale escort classifieds for local transexual sex hookups without the hassles. Another place to find shemale escorts and no-strings transexual dating is FreeSexAds, in their shemale classifieds.

Live Shemale Chat to Practice Pickup Techniques

Live shemale chat is online 24/7. Just sign up for instant access. This is a fun, friendly chat room for shemales and admirers to interact, share pictures, engage in private messages and make new trans friends. We strive to be totally inclusive so you may meet new friends who identify as shemales, transgender, trans, transexual, crossdressers, male to female, female to male, pre-op, post-op, non-op, transvestites, intersex, androgynous, straight, gay, bisexual, pansexual, genetic males, genetic females, significant others and friends. This shemale chat has been more active lately so come join us for uncensored fun. Be sure to check out the shemale forums, member search, photo swaps, private messages and more. You’ll find something to love!

True Attraction

There is a huge difference between someone who is truly attracted to T-Girls and one who is just looking to over-sexualize them. Make sure to not say things to them that will make them feel like a fetish instead of a lady. We’ve laid the groundwork for you here, now you just need to get out there and let yourself be seen.

There is huge respect for people who understand that not everyone identifies as male and female. For people who connect that if you’re not sure what a person’s preferred pronoun is that you use “they” until you figure out what this person’s preferred pronoun is.

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